How Long Does Grief Stays




Your grief has been too heavy 

I don’t know how much grief buries you down

Please let me weep with you 

Please let me weep with you

Like the others, I adore you for keeping up with life 

I could imagine how you cry in your thoughts

How like blade, grief cuts your heart, your throat, 

the top of your skull - slowly

Like wars in history, there are no exits 

and there are no choices 

If you were there, you had to face those rattling guns

Plead, please plead

Remember “Our Lady of Sorrows'

Mary carried part of the grief Jesus has 

been carrying to save us, during the crucifixion

Mary had no one with her

She was helpless, yet in those moments

God’s strength kept her unmovable and brave

How long does grief stay? 

People are not things 

How long does grief stay? 

If you lost something, you can always build it again

How long does grief stay? 

If you lost someone, and someone, and someone 

again, in any way – they are part of you

For as long as you live, grief changes into

remembering happy days with each other 

Grief becomes faithfulness

Grief changes unto faith

Those drops of blood, while Jesus prayed in the garden 

Is grief

Grief is never having to say “I grieve, ”

but “I love, ” 

This is how long grief stays.



/poem by rosevoc
light and shadow. photography by ledio melaez, rcj

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